This is my third pregnancy. My body knows what to do and roughly how big it's going to get, so I guess it has no problem getting a jumpstart. However, I am 18 weeks today, which doesn't seem that far along to me, yet people instinctively know and comment on the fact that I'm pregnant. It's good, because that means that people no longer think I'm "fat" and have moved on to thinking I'm pregnant. But it's a little unsettling because this seems kind of early for people to be assuming that about me, right? Unless I see a woman who is doubled over with contractions, I'm still a little reluctant to admit that I know she's pregnant.
Anyway, yesterday while ordering at Arby's, I had about the 214th person look at me and say, "Aw, look at your belly! Congratulations!" It got me thinking of possible reasons for the early attention:
1. Since I refuse to make the switch to maternity clothes until I'm halfway along (20 weeks), I am squeezing (or straining, as one of my friends' husband hilariously referred to her tight jeans) into my pre-pregnancy clothes, making me look bigger than I am, or
2. the people I'm running into are more forthcoming in their opinions, or
3. I'm actually huge.
So, as I'm thinking about what had just happened at the ordering counter, I was composing this post in my mind and trying to figure out which of the 3 categories above I fell into. I mosey over to the pickup counter lost in thought when the lady who is putting my order together ("We're just waiting on your mozarella sticks...") happens to glance at me:
"Oh, wow! How far along ARE you?"
"18 weeks...so just about halfway there..."
"Giiiiiiiiiirl, you are going to have a BIG baby! Are you sure there aren't two in there?"
"Uh, yeah...so the doctor says..."
"Really? Well, good luck with THAT!"
So, yeah. I guess I'm actually huge. :)